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A life full of peace, energy and pleasure - even with an addict in your family
Find out how you can make sure your child or partner stops their addiction.
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Imagine...
- That you can sleep peacefully again, without constantly lying awake worrying about your addicted family member.
- That you have energy to do fun things again, without guilt.
- That you no longer feel that constant tension, that you no longer walk on eggshells.
- That you can enjoy your other children or your relationship again, without everything being overshadowed by the addiction.
- Instead of watching helplessly and helplessly, you finally know exactly what steps you can take - and when
- That you can set boundaries without the fear of losing your loved one.
The ebook offers valuable insights and tools you can use as a Neighbor to help your addicted family member actual can support.
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You know this doesn't have to be an unattainable dream, but how?
Are you currently...
- Completely drained by the unpredictability of your addicted family member?
- Do you ever lose confidence because you keep getting disappointed?
- Afraid your loved one will die from drugs or alcohol?
- Do you ever feel like you are failing as a parent or partner, when deep down you know you want the very best for him/her?
- Constantly asking "what did I do wrong?"
- So stressed that you are constantly on, even at night?
- That you are alienated from your child, as if you have lost him or her?
You are not alone. And there is a way out.
What are you longing for?
You want harmony in your life again. Structure. Peace.
You want to have more energy, a An existence without that constant pressure on your shoulders.
You want to be able to set boundaries without guilt. Stay upright without going under.
You long to sparkle again, to be cheerful and have fun without letting your son or daughter down.
You want to be able to give attention to your other children. Enjoy the fun things. Being happier. Being able to do things quietly.
Maybe you dream of a house without drugs, of picking up your own life. Of knowing what to do.
Of being able to help your loved one without losing it yourself. Of taking better care of yourself.
This is all possible - and it starts with you.
In the 7 Step E-book you will discover:
- How to stop carrying alone - Break through isolation and no longer feel lonely in your struggles
- How to stay upright - Concrete tools to stop being lived by the addict
- How to set effective boundaries - Without guilt, without fear of rejection
- How to choose for yourself - Without abandoning your loved one
- How to confront your fears - And finally find peace in your mind
It's not just about stopping the addiction. It's about allowing YOU to live again, even if your family member is still struggling.
What others have experienced
"I was totally exhausted by my efforts to pull the cart to keep him out of the ravine. I had completely lost myself. Talking with Esther helped me pick up my own life. It energized me and made me calmer and more loving. And that cart ... it still follows its own path, winding and bumpy but without my interference. And you know what? It's not in the ravine yet." - Danielle
A confrontational truth
You cannot keep doing what you were doing and expect a different outcome. If you want to help your addicted family member, you have to help yourself first.
It is not selfishness to choose for yourself. It is not abandonment when you set boundaries. On the contrary, it is the most loving act - both for yourself and for your addicted family member.
As an expert by experience, I know what it is to be lived by someone else's addiction. I know the despair, the helplessness, the short fuse you develop. But I also know the way out.
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About Esther
I have a son and an ex-partner who have addiction problems.
I know better than anyone what it is like to have a partner or a child with addiction, with all the feelings that come with it. I understand you! I had already written the funeral speech. I was living in fear, broken and everything revolved around addiction. And I also know the way how to stay afloat in that situation stand.
I have been involved with Yes We Can Clinics for over 5 years now as a Family Counselor at the Day Treatment, National Clinic and International Clinic. And I have my own practice counseling parents and partners.
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